How can I stop the debt collectors from harassing me?

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Who is a debt collector? A debt collector is a person who regularly collects debts owed to others. A debt collector is typically a third party to the original credit account between you and the creditor. Debt collectors are supposed to follow the collection practices under the Fair Debt Collection Practices Act (FDCPA). However, some large creditors (banks) have their own in-house debt collectors who by definition are not debt collectors under the FDCPA. [top]
What is the Fair Debt Collection Practices Act (FDCPA)? The FDCPA requires that debt collectors treat you fairly, use fair debt collection tactics, not harass or threaten you. In Oregon, you are also protected from debt collectors under the Oregon Fair Debt Collection Practices Act. The federal and the state law both apply to personal, family and household debts. Examples are car loans, medical services or credit card accounts. [top]
I have debt collectors calling me non-stop 24/7, what can I do? Knowing your rights is the most powerful tool you have to protect yourself from over aggressive debt collectors. Here is a summary of the rights you have under both state and federal law in Oregon. Debt collectors:
  • can only contact you between 8:00 am and 9:00 pm;
  • may not continually call your phone number to harass you;
  • must identify themselves as a debt collector during a phone call;
  • may not use obscene, profane or threatening language;
  • cannot contact you at work unless you cannot be reached at home in the evening;
  • may not call you more than once a week at work and must stop calling you at work if you tell the debt collector not to call you at work;
  • must mail a notice in writing within five days of contacting you the first time telling you how much money you owe and the name and address of the original creditor.
  • must verify the debt if you dispute the validity of the debt within 30 days;
  • must stop contacting you if you notify them in writing that you are not going to pay the debt; however, the debt collector may notify you of potential legal action regarding the debt.[top]
What are some examples of what debt collectors are not allowed to do under FDCPA? Debt collectors may not:
  • Threaten you with violence or harm;
  • Use obscene or profane language; or repeatedly use the telephone to harass or annoy a debtor.
  • Threaten to have you arrested if you do not pay your debt.
  • Threaten to seize, garnish, attach or sell your property or you’re your wages unless the collection agency or creditor intends to do so (remember property is protected by personal exemptions – see page titled “How assets are handled in bankruptcy” on this site)
  • Threaten to sue you, when they do not intend to take such an action
  • Threaten to ruin your credit forever.
  • Debt collectors may not make false or misleading statements to you, for example:
    • Falsely imply that they are attorneys or represent the government;
    • Falsely imply you have committed a crime;
    • Falsely represent that they work for a credit bureau;
    • Misrepresent the amount of your debt;
    • Tell you papers they send to you are legal when they are not; or
    • Tell you papers are not legal when they are.
  • Debt collectors may not use unfair practices when trying to collect a debt. For example debt collectors may not:
    • Collect an amount greater than your debt, unless otherwise allowed by state law;
    • Deposit a post dated check early;
    • Use lies to make you accept collect calls;
    • Take or threaten to take your property unless your property can be taken legally;
    • Contact you by postcard
    • Contact you “at any unusual time or place known or which should be known to be inconvenient.” (For example: if you work night shift sleeping until 3:00 pm each day and you have asked, or better written a letter to notify the debt collector that you are a day sleeper, not to be called until after 3:00 pm and the debt collector continues to call you when you are sleeping, the debt collector is breaking the law.) [top]
What if I have debt collectors calling me right now who are breaking the Fair Debt Collection Practices Act? It is important to keep records of the harassment or unfair practices and contact an experienced attorney to assist you in filing a lawsuit against the collector. Our office offers free consultations in these situations. [top]
Can a debt collector call my parents, spouse or friends about my debt? A debt collector may only call other people to find out where you live, what your phone number is and where you work. Collectors are usually prohibited from contacting third parties more than once and in most cases the collector is not allowed to tell anyone else other than you or your attorney that you owe money. [top]
What do I do if a debt collector tries to make my parents, spouse or someone else pay my debt? Unless the person being pressured co-signed the debt for you, pressuring someone else to pay your individual debt is probably a violation under the FDCPA. It is important to contact a lawyer right away. You can also file a complaint against the collector with the Federal Trade Commission and with the state attorney general’s office. [top]
If I don’t have the money to pay the debt collectors, what can I do? It is important to learn your rights to make the debt collector treat you fairly under the applicable state and federal laws. Some ideas are:
  • Prioritize your bills and estimate whether you can pay anything on the debt either in monthly payments or in a lump sum. Don’t allow yourself to be talked into send post-dated checks or paying more than you can reasonably afford. Paying your rent or mortgage and providing the necessities for your family always come first.
  • Don’t tell the debt collector your life story or any more information than is reasonably necessary.
  • Keep your private information private, which means regardless of what a debt collector may say you are not required to tell them where you work, what bank your money is in or give them your checking account number. You don’t even have to give them your cell phone number.
  • Keep the call short and stay calm, remember your goal is to successfully negotiate a settlement on the debt.
  • When negotiating with a debt collector it is important to stay in control and not agree to anything you cannot afford to agree to. Offer less than you may be prepared to pay knowing what you can pay without taking necessities away from your family.
  • Once you have reached a deal with the debt collector make sure you have agreed to not only how much you are going to pay but also when and how you will make the payments.
  • Do not make any payment toward your agreement until the debt collector provides you with a written agreement that clearly spells out all of the terms and conditions as you understood them during your negotiation. The written agreement should clearly show the amount you agreed to pay, whether you will make payments and their amount or pay the amount in one lump sum, when the payments are due and where you should send them and how you will make the payments i.e. cashiers check or electronic payments.
  • When negotiating a settlement agreement it doesn’t hurt to ask for an additional concession, namely to remove record of the debt permanently form the credit bureau records once you have paid as agreed. The debt collector can only remove the reference that your debt was collected by them, the collector cannot remove any negative information related to the underlying debt (the credit card company reported the credit card account had been charged-off).
  • A final piece of information relating to debt settlement is that the collection agency can report the difference between what was owed and the actual paid amount to the IRS as income. Typically, this is only reported if the settled amount is less than $600 than the original debt and you will receive an IRS form 1099-C, which will notify you that the collector has reported the forgiven portion of your debt as “discharge of indebtedness income” to the IRS.
  • If you do not have any money after providing your family with basic necessities and are unable to reach a settlement agreement with the collectors then you may wish to consider bankruptcy. Please review the page titled “*What is bankruptcy*”* (link pages together)* and the answer to question “How do I know if bankruptcy is right for me?” You are welcome to schedule a free consultation appointment with our office to discuss your financial situation and available options to relieve the stress associated with debt collectors. [top]
Is it a good idea to send several months of post-dated checks to the debt collector so I won’t forget to make my payments? No, it is never a good idea to write a post-dated check for any reason. If you decide to write one anyway, then it is important to know that the FDCPA says that a debt collector must notify you in writing that he intends to deposit the check within three to ten business days before he actually does. For example, if you write a post-dated check for October 31, 2007, the debt collector is supposed to notify you in writing between October 17 and October 26, 2007 that the check will be deposited. [top]
Am I responsible for someone else’s debt? Only under a few situations can anyone other than the actual debtor be held responsible for a debt:
  • If you live in a community property state, you can be held responsible for your spouse’s debts incurred during marriage;
  • If your divorce decree made you responsible for marital debts;
  • If you co-sign a loan and that person stops making payments then the debt collector can contact you for payment. Co-signers are legally responsible for paying the full amount owing of any account they co-signed.
Please know that it is quite common for debt collectors to pressure family members into paying debts they are not responsible for, for example a debt collector may try to collect a debt that is your spouse’s individual debt or trying to collect a debt owed by a deceased family member. Contact an attorney immediately to stop the debt collector from harassing you for a debt you do not owe. It is important to remember that a debt collector can only harass you if you allow it. Know your rights and protect them against abuse by debt collectors. If you believe that you have been treated wrongly by a debt collector or are having a hard time negotiating with a collector, you are welcome to come into our office and our attorney’s will assist you in protecting yourself against unfair debt collection practices. [top]